Big problem/desicion to make.....
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Big problem/desicion to make.....
I really need your advice on what could be a crucial decision. I've suspected for some time now that my wife has been cheating on me. The usual signs... phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up. My wife has been going out with the girls a lot recently although when I ask their names she always says, "Just some friends from work, you don't know them." I always stay awake to look out for her taxi coming home, but she always walks down the drive, although I can hear a car driving off, as if she has gotten out of the car round the corner. Why? Maybe she wasn't in a taxi? I once picked her cell phone up just to see what time it was and she went berserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her. Anyway, I had never approached the subject with my wife. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth, but last night she went out again, I decided to really check on her. I decided I was going to park my Ranger next to the corner and then hide under it so I could get a good view of the whole street when she came home. It was at that dreadful moment, laying under my Ranger, that I noticed a large crack in my exhaust. Is this something I can fix myself or should I take it to a shop and have them fix it?
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your wife is showing classic examples of having an affair: being defensive about where she's going and who she's with, never seen leaving a taxi at your home, instead being dropped off far from the house. having screaming fits for simple, minor infractions, like you just "checking what time it is" on her cell phone. your wife displays an emotion that can be described as one being guilty. she knows that you know she's cheating on you, so, she becomes defiant, angered, but even though she may be expressing her anger toward you, it's really being expressed towards herself for cheating on you. she is probably (i hate to say this, but) having a great time with the person she is seeing, but afterwards feels so guilty about it that the only person she can "take it out on" is you, her husband. you need to sit her down and calmly talk about what you've seen, what you know and what you think. be rational. don't accuse and don't yell. doing these things will most likely break her down. also, if you truly love your wife, tell her this during your conversation. hope this helps!
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Originally Posted by ks ranger
I really need your advice on what could be a crucial decision. I've suspected for some time now that my wife has been cheating on me. The usual signs... phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up. My wife has been going out with the girls a lot recently although when I ask their names she always says, "Just some friends from work, you don't know them." I always stay awake to look out for her taxi coming home, but she always walks down the drive, although I can hear a car driving off, as if she has gotten out of the car round the corner. Why? Maybe she wasn't in a taxi? I once picked her cell phone up just to see what time it was and she went berserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her. Anyway, I had never approached the subject with my wife. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth, but last night she went out again, I decided to really check on her. I decided I was going to park my Ranger next to the corner and then hide under it so I could get a good view of the whole street when she came home. It was at that dreadful moment, laying under my Ranger, that I noticed a large crack in my exhaust. Is this something I can fix myself or should I take it to a shop and have them fix it?
i did the same things when i was cheating in a previous relationship. I can't tell you what to do either way, but i can tell you, She's not going out with the girls!
i wish you the best of luck man, and i hope that you can find a peacable means to and end.
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